Therein lies the key, methinks. If the dealer had spent their most recent opportunity trying to put it right with the OP rather than "chastising" him then I'm sure he would have been good enough to have come back on and correct the record in terms of his experience. The tally is now 3 missed opportunities to make a positive impression.Originally Posted by DoktorB
I work in a service function, IT, with a couple of thousand internal customers. Of course things go wrong from time to time. That's inevitable but when my team or I mess up (and sometimes when we don't but it seems like we did) our first duty is to try to find a solution, either to the original problem or the mess we made. Our second duty is to try and fix the relationship with the customer through understanding why the problem happened, how we (collectively) will try to avoid repeating the error, with this or another customer, and explaining both the cause and the remedial actions to the customer.
To my mind that is the greatest failing with the dealer in this episode. They have had multiple opportunities to recover the situation and the goodwill and not taken them.